PHRASAL VERB 同…拉上关系;与…攀交情 If someone tries to get in with you, they try to become friendly with you because they think that they will benefit in some way. 同…拉上关系;与…攀交情 [disapproval]
She did everything she could to get in with the people she thought would make her look important. [VERBPREP.PREP. noun]