ADJ-GRADED [usually verb-link ADJ]无男子气概的;怯懦的 If you describe a boy's or man's behaviour as unmanly, you are critical of the fact that they are behaving in a way that you think is inappropriate for a man. 无男子气概的;怯懦的 [disapproval]
Your partner can feel the loss as acutely as you, but may feel that it is unmanly to cry.